Assorted links from week30 to 31, 2024

šŸŖ” We threw our first ā€˜denim soirĆ©eā€™ in San Francisco last Friday and we canā€™t be happier. Stella was one of the local tailor. Learn more about her and how sheā€™s doing some magic with fabrics since age 8.

šŸŽØ Many things Matt wrote resonated. Culture being the cornerstone of our lives, this is an important thing to grasp, and hereā€™s a very interesting read: Making Sense of Culture Amidst Contradiction.

Culture is the foundational DNA of society: the rules, conventions, beliefs and norms we operate within. But itā€™s more complicated. There is no singular ā€œculture.ā€ My culture is not yours and vice-versa. And further, these cultures are ever-evolving.

šŸ–¼ And when weā€™re talking culture, taste is never too far. Jackson did a good job with this one + you can find some great ressources in there. Taste, Time, and Attention: On Making Contact with the World.

I like the idea that taste is mostly a product of appetite. [ā€¦] Put another way, those with great taste usually get disproportionate energy from curiosity toward a domain. That appetite is the beginning of a journey of prolonged attention down an infinite rabbit hole. The breadth of the world folds in on itself in favor of discovering a universe of detail. Perhaps the complexity that another finds tiresome or boring may be a treasure trove for you.

šŸš— Looking at Chinaā€™s evolution through its car landscape. Thereā€™s something fascinating here. Shanghaiā€™a automotive metamorphosis.

Cars are more than transport ā€” they embody technology, signal identity, and reflect wealth.

This is something I re-discovered recently with both my kids while walking around SF. Their level of joy and awe when they saw their first Waymo self-driving car. I canā€™t even grasp the broader impact it might have on them since their imagination have ran so wild since then. It unlocked something in their mind for sure.

āœØ I found Patricia's view on why we need to evolve past individualism very compelling: why everything feels off.

In other words, we are more materially prosperous and free to self-actualize than weā€™ve ever been, yet feel unhappy and lonely in that plight, grasping eagerly at proxies for meaning - those of which satiate us temporarily, yet leave an aftertaste of emptiness. I believe that what weā€™re experiencing is actually a crisis of individualism, in which meaninglessness and loneliness are mere byproducts.

šŸŒ± I truly loved these notes on the neglected spaces in our cities. Neighborhood Watch. And I love even more this idea of ā€œanonymous contributions to the street lifeā€.